Q: Recently, my husband brought up a proposal of having a tinder threesome together. The minute when he said that, I was pretty pissed off, but when I calmed down and really thought about it, I could understand him. Our sexual life has been pretty dry for quite some time now. It is comprehensible that he wants to do something to spice it up. Although having swinger lifestyle sounds like a quite bold move, but as I’ve heard, it can really refresh a relationship. After I turned him down, he was really depressed. Even though he never mentioned it again, but I knew he was still thinking about it. I am too. So I am hoping to get some advice from the married couples who had threesomes together. How was it like? Did it change your relationship? Better or worse? How did you feel during and after it? Please help!
A: We had the exactly same situation with you when my husband first brought up the idea. We barely made love once every two weeks. So he thought maybe it was time to spice things up by adding another person in. I couldn’t accept him even baring this idea in his head at first. Adding another person in our bed? Come on! He only wanted to make love to another girl for an exchange. That was what I thought hours after he suggested that. We even had a big fight over it, causing a few days cold war between us.
During that days, I had been thinking about it. When I actually thought about it, I could understand why he brought up that proposal. Sexual life surely matters a huge deal in a relationship. An end of a relationship can be started with an unsatisfactory sexual life. I googled threesomes a lot and read many successful and failed threesome dating stories, and also grew my interest and curiosity in it. I got convinced my myself in the end.
We had a threesome a few weeks later with a girl we found on tinder for threesome dating apps. By the way, if you decide to have a threesome, you should definitely find such tinder threesome dating app, because it would make it so much easy and efficient to find a threesome partner. The experience was amazing. We made thorough plans beforehand, including setting boundaries and clearing our preferences for everyone. This is vital in a threesome hookup, no matter who you are with. Even if you are with friends, you also need to set boundaries to ensure a pleasing threesome.
Now, my husband and I have been living a swinger lifestyle for nearly half a year. Everything works great for both of us. One thing I love about threesome is that it can raise the passion between you. Also, we appreciate our marriage more after being with another person in bed.