Usually when I am offered with a tinder threesome with a swinger couple, I would love to join them. However, it’s Lily, who is my close friend. Even though we are not best friend, but I still cherish our friendship very much like my every other friendship. I never had threesome with my friend before, not even with someone I knew. I just think it would be awkward to be sexually involved with someone I know and it might affect our relationship. However, to be honest, I do want to have a threesome with them. Lily is cute and her husband is also cute. They would be a lovely swinger couple to have couples dating with. So I am really wavering on this. My sense tells me that I shouldn’t have threesome with them, while my sensibility tells me just go ahead and enjoys it. Is there anyone who have had threesome with your friends before? Any advice for me?
A: The old me would tell you that you should follow your desire and do it with your friend. But as an experienced swinger, I would suggest you not to. I had threesomes with my friends, many times with different friends. To tell you the truth, having threesome with friends is more comfortable and connecting than with strangers. You have bond and you trust each other. Trust is very important in a threesome and it is also a great addictive in threesomes. I have also had threesomes with strangers from bars, clubs or tinder for threesome dating apps. I know it very well.
In the early ages of my swinger lifestyle, I tried threesome with almost all of my friends who are also swingers. We had a good time together. However, there was outcomes. It turned out that friendship cannot be strengthened by having threesome. Actually, it is quite the opposite. Friendship will be less connecting and more vulnerable after you are sexually related, unless you can be sexually connected forever, which is nearly impossible, once you lose your sexual connection, your friendship will be fading away soon as well. Unfortunately, my own personal experience taught me this lesson. If I had known it sooner, I wouldn’t have slept with any of my friends. I would have many more friends now. I hope you won’t turn into me.